Marilyn passed into immortality after bravely battling a long & pain filled illness.
My dear mother is gone. Most of the time my mind remembers, it's only my heart that tends to forget.
Rather than mourn the absence of her beautiful flame;
Let us celebrate how lovely & brightly it glowed.
Marilyn's flame glowed very lovely & brightly indeed... Only her prolonged & debilitating illness could dim her warming light, which even when ill continued to flare up for brief intervals, giving those around her merely a glimpse of it's former brilliance & beauty.
We must celebrate:
The Marilyn the confidant & keeper of many a deep secret;
The Marilyn who happily mothered the whole neighborhood, and any stray child who happened to come within her sight, hearing, or reach;
The Marilyn the homemaker, who once made matching long sleeve, button down shirts for her husband and young sons without the benefit of patterns, nor benefit of any sewing training (No one told her that it could not be done, so she just did it);
The Marilyn who SO loved to dress up for an outing;
The Marilyn who always had to have her hair fixed just so, makeup all in place, and jewelry on before she would go out of her house.
We must celebrate:
The Marilyn who tried so hard, for so many years, to make everyone happy;
The Marilyn of my youth who would never leave the house without hose, a hat, and gloves on, and heels with a bag to match;
The Marilyn who would never wear white after labor day;
The Marilyn who loved & wore Chanel Number 5;
The Marilyn who loved her big new "Red Hat Society" hat, although she never had a proper chance to wear it.
We also need remember:
The Marilyn who wanted SO much to be a grandmother and part of her grandchildren's lives, but her poor body just seemed to betray her far, far too early;
The Marilyn who wanted SO much to be able to travel again with her husband, that she endured hour upon hour and day upon day of agonizing respriatory therapy, trying in vain to build up her staminia so that she would be able to visit far away places once more.
You had so much pain... Is it a nice, pain free rest you are now having, mom?
Are you finally able to be free of the terrible & unending anxiety which became the bane of your life?
Marilyn is remembered & terribly missed by all who knew her.
She is especially missed by her husband, children, and grandchildren.